Default automatic Return Links to disabled and review compatibility

README.md

@@ -198,7 +198,7 @@ Linking creates a bound Return Link to the exact source position and orientation
 according to the configured Return Link policy.
 
 Server owners can set `descriptive_books.return_link_mode` in Rivencraft's
-server config to `ON_CREATION` (default), `ALWAYS`, or `DISABLED`.
+server config to `DISABLED` (default), `ON_CREATION`, or `ALWAYS`.
 Age creation, persistence, lifecycle commands, configuration, backups, and
 administrator recovery are documented in [docs/AGES.md](docs/AGES.md).
 Data-pack runtime profiles are documented in